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Meet the Husbands and Boyfriends of the ‘Secret Lives of Mormon Wives’ Cast Ahead of the Season 4 Premiere

Things have changed a bit since season 1...

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If you haven’t been on MomTok in a hot minute, then you might have missed the news: The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives is coming back for season four (and sooner than you think!). The fourth installment of the Hulu reality series is dropping on Thursday, March 12 with 10 brand new episodes, soooo...get your Dirty Sodas ready, friends. Ofc, things have changed a bit since season one premiered back in September 2024, and now seems like as good a time as any to revisit the relationship statuses of all your fave soft-swingers.

Ahead, a quick refresher on the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives season four cast and their relationship statuses, including who’s married, who’s single, and who recently expanded their family.

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Taylor Frankie Paul

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Current relationship status: Single...for now

Following her 2022 divorce from Tate Paul, Taylor found love again with Dakota Mortensen—but unfortunately, the relationship didn’t last. After breaking up...then getting back together...then breaking up again, Taylor and Dakota called it quits (maybe for good) in December 2024. Taylor shares two children with Tate and another with Dakota.

Of course, now that Taylor is about to make her debut as the new Bachelorette, she probably won’t be remaining single for long.

SEE TAYLOR & DAKOTA'S RELATIONSHIP TIMELINE

Mayci Neeley

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Current relationship status: Married to Jacob Neeley

After her partner, Arik Mack, tragically died in a car accident back in 2015, Mayci met Jacob Neely, who she ended up marrying in 2018. Mayci shares one child with her late boyfriend (who never got the chance to meet their son) and two children with Jacob—one of which they just welcomed in July 2025.

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Jen Affleck

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Current relationship status: Married to Zac Affleck

Jen and her husband Zac Affleck (who, btw, is not related to Ben Affleck) have been married since 2019, though their relationship has been plagued with breakup rumors ever since season one dropped. However! They seemingly put those rumors to rest by welcoming their third child together in July 2025.

Miranda McWhorter

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Current relationship status: Seemingly single

After marrying in 2017, Miranda and her now-ex Chase McWhorter (with whom she shares two kids) were involved in the “soft-swinging” scandal and ended up splitting a few years later. She’s now seemingly single—though she briefly dated her landlord, Jake Baum, following her 2024 divorce from Chase.

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Whitney Leavitt

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Current relationship status: Married to Conner Leavitt

Whitney has been married to Conner Leavitt since 2016 and—save for a brief porn addiction scandal—they have been seemingly rock-solid ever since. The couple shares three children, the youngest of whom was born in October 2024.

Jessi Draper

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Current relationship status: Married to Jordan Ngatikaura

Shortly after welcoming their first son, Jessi and Jordan Ngatikaura said “I do” in 2020 and have been married ever since (though this coming season promises continued Marciano Brunette drama for these two). They’ve also had another daughter together (in addition to Jordan’s older daughter from a previous relationship).

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Mikayla Matthews

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Current relationship status: Married to Jace Terry

After welcoming their first child together when she was just 17 years old, Mikayla tied the knot with Jace Terry and they’ve since welcomed three more children, the youngest of whom was just born in July 2025.

Layla Taylor

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Current relationship status: Newly single

The youngest member of MomTok was previously married to Clayton Wessel, with whom she shares two sons. She and Clayton divorced in 2023, and following a brief fling with Cameron Jolley (who was introduced in season two), Layla began dating Mason McWhorter (aka the brother of Miranda’s ex-husband). Season four follows their new relationship—though sadly, the couple ended up splitting right before the season four premiere.

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Demi Engemann

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Current relationship status: Married to Bret Engemann

Just a year after divorcing Blake Corbin in 2020, Demi tied the knot with Bret Engemann, who’s 16 years her senior. Despite the age gap, the couple seems to the going strong, and their blended family includes Demi’s daughter with Blake and Bret’s two sons with his ex-wife, Real Housewives of Salt Lake City cast member Angie Harrington.

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